Posted by Dinah on August 24, 2005, at 20:47:34
In reply to Re: If it were next session » Dinah, posted by alexandra_k on August 24, 2005, at 20:31:08
> > And there's never been any intensity on his side. Never.
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> Maybe you are intense enough for the both of you :-)I never think of myself as being intense. I always think of myself as being cerebral. Do I seem intense here?
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> >The intensity is on my side. I don't want to lose the intensity, and he doesn't mind if I do. Because overall, it's better for him for me not to mind his leaving town, and not to call him between sessions.
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> But what about you? Isn't it better for you to not mind (or at least not feel so very upset) about his leaving town? Isn't it better for you to not feel like you need to call between sessions?
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> ???No, it's not.
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> > He won't help me get back the daydreams.
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> Are the daydreams helpful or hurtful to you?I loved them, and they made me feel good.
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> > It doesn't mean he doesn't care about me, but it does mean that he doesn't care about what I care about,
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> But does he care about what is best for you???
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He cares about what he thinks is best for me. It makes me want to do terrible things to show him that it's what I think that's important.
poster:Dinah
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