Posted by alexandra_k on August 23, 2005, at 2:07:30
In reply to Re: Attachment, posted by Damos on August 22, 2005, at 20:06:44
Oh Damos you are doing so well, I hope I can get there with my mother... maybe one day. it is hard. but what you say makes a lot of sense...
focusing on her bad qualities is only upsetting to me because i do resemble her a lot... but there are good qualities too. sometimes... sometimes they would shine through. not so much with me i guess but with other people.
and im different too. because i have a little help with trying to understand. and... though i tend to do this at times (eg with harry potter) she reads everything at such a rapid rate of knotts so none of it really sinks in. i have that tendancy too but i think ive learned to focus my attention a little more.
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