Posted by happyflower on July 2, 2005, at 12:39:31
In reply to Re: I quit therapy today » happyflower, posted by Jen Star on July 2, 2005, at 0:13:55
> hi happyflower,
> I'm sure that your T doesn't feel that way about you! You're a great person and you're worth so much more than you give yourself credit for. Hopefully he'll realize how upset he's made you, and reach out to close the gap. I hope you two can work past this and continue therapy -- good, non-lying therapy, that is!Thank you , that was sweet for you to say! :) I think he has realized how upset I am, don't you think? lol I hope he doesn't give up on me, and lets me have another chance.
> Do you think that an explanation from him about the lying comment would help you feel trust for him again?
Yes, I don't think his explanation was good enough. I think a T should never tell a client he is a good liar, ever. Even if he thinks it is funny or anything else. To me with trust issues, it is like telling a abuse survior he is good at hiting his wife. You know what i mean?
> take care, and have a good weekend if you can! :)
>
Thanks, I am going to have a bonfire in the back yard with my DH and kids. I feel better now since I sent him that card today. :)
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