Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . » dancinbillie

Posted by LittleGirlLost on June 27, 2005, at 11:18:53

In reply to How do I tell my therapist . . ., posted by dancinbillie on June 26, 2005, at 20:03:58

> that I'm having frequent sexual thoughts about her??? <snip> I don't so much fantasize about actually having sex with her (although that scenario has definitely crossed my mind a number of times), rather I imagine watching her having sex with a partner or masturbating, which is powerfully arousing to me.
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> In addition to the sexual aspect, I find myself wanting to know EVERYTHING about her.
Dancinbillie,
Welcome to the board! And I am so glad you shared what you did because I can relate SO much. I am too embarrassed to talk about it, not only with my T, but here also.
I also consider myself heterosexual, but I have though about my (female) T in a sexual way... not really "with" me, but just her as a sexual being. For some reason, I cannot handle that thought! Not sure what it is, but I just have a strong "sick to my stomach, gut feeling" at the thought of her being intimate with her husband. Sometimes I worry that he hurts her. Maybe I also feel a little jealous. It's so confusing to me because I'm not exactly sure WHAT I feel; I just know that I do NOT like the thought of her as a sexual being. Hey, she's about 60... Anybody know if people stop having sex at that age? <g>
And yes, in terms of you wanting to know EVERYTHING about your T, I am the same way. It's disturbing to me though. I don't even necessarily want to know the "big" things in her life, but even the tiniest of details I "obsess" over. When I'm in the shower, I wonder what kind of soap/shampoo she uses. Washing dishes, I wonder what kind of dish soap she uses... It's endless! I feel sick. I also wonder what she wears outside of her prefessional clothes. What does she look like? And maybe going back to the sexual thoughts above, but I also wonder what she wears to bed! (Although I do not mean that in a sexual way!) I just want to know everything. I feel extreme. I feel yucky. Oh, and yes, I've Googled her.
:(
lgl

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How do I tell my therapist . . . dancinbillie 6/26/05
Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . » dancinbillie Jazzed 6/26/05
Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . » dancinbillie Shortelise 6/26/05
Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . » dancinbillie Tamar 6/27/05
Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . » dancinbillie Dinah 6/27/05
Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . » dancinbillie LittleGirlLost 6/27/05
Re: How do I tell my therapist . . . (long) » Jazzed dancinbillie 6/27/05
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