Posted by Jazzed on June 24, 2005, at 16:55:18
In reply to Re: tootriggered to write....**graphic triggers!**, posted by B2chica on June 24, 2005, at 11:28:49
>>my next best friend led me into a situation where i was r@ped and she was oblivious (i'm still struggling with that term cuz i didn't fight at all, i freaking froze and was led into the situation a second time and was SA again...i still blame myself but there were times that i blamed her).
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I guess when your fight or flight kicked in, yours was to "flight". I was reading about this last night because of when I was raped. I fought, and then didn't, just froze. From what I read, this is a really normal response, but causes a lot of shame. Please don't blame yourself, you wouldn't have walked into it knowingly. Blame your "friend", since she knew and led you into it. BTW, she was no friend.((((hugs))))
Jazzy
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