Posted by Shortelise on May 20, 2005, at 13:14:40
In reply to Re: Relationship with T/Bad Session (very long) » Shortelise, posted by 10derHeart on May 20, 2005, at 9:06:55
10derheart,
one last thing: you say you feel you shouldn't examine your T's reactions so closely.
My T has been a mirror for me. I watch him carefully, looking for reations. He's a gauge for me. I need that. He is my ulimate reality check. That is what he is for, among other things. We are supposed to watch so carefully - it's part of therapy. It's that relationship thing. You see, if I can learn to say to him, hey, you said blah and I feel blah about it, then I can learn to ask the pharmacist who is always nasty with me to please not speak to me like that, and do it in a kind way. And I have.
To see a dx like that would have thrown me into a horrible state, as I know it did you. I'd like to diagnose the twits who write that dastardly thing!
I'm so happy my post helped. That makes me feel great.
Hope it goes well.
ShortE
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