Posted by daisym on May 17, 2005, at 23:28:00
In reply to Re: Loss » sunny10, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 19:51:37
It probably doesn't help that your therapist has been traveling again. It brings home so many old feelings. Grieving is a process, and you are probably just evolving into another phase -- pushed along by the loss of your pastor.
Simply put -- Loss sucks. So there!
I hate good-bye. I usually avoid saying it, or being around when someone leaves. I can't handle it -- I feel so much panic. It flared up again today in therapy. He is going on vacation. I've been OK knowing that. Today I wasn't OK with it. I imagine him out house hunting, looking to leave the area. And then I'm upset with myself for having such foolish fantasies.
Has anyone talked to Dr. Bob about forever Babble? Should I worry now, or later?
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