it's not true! » shrinking violet

Posted by JenStar on May 16, 2005, at 15:29:12

In reply to i failed her, posted by shrinking violet on May 16, 2005, at 8:18:14

shrinking violet,
you didn't fail her! It was never your job or your obligation to make HER life different or most successful. YOur only obligation in therapy is to yourself, and her job is to help you.
If things didn't work out between you two, that is not your fault alone, it's just an issue of chemistry together.
Are you really worried that you failed yourself, somehow? You're the more important one in the You/T relationship. Maybe you're projecting your feelings onto her b/c it's too painful to face the fact that you didn't accomplish something for yourself that you wanted to? (<--- amateur armchair analysis...feel free to ignore!)
JenStar

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i failed her shrinking violet 5/16/05
You didn't fail her » shrinking violet Dinah 5/16/05
Re: i failed her » shrinking violet Poet 5/16/05
((((((sv)))))) Keep your chin up, you can do it! (nm) happyflower 5/16/05
((sv)) Shortelise 5/16/05
i overestimated my worth shrinking violet 5/16/05
You are as worthy as everyone around you are » shrinking violet pinkeye 5/16/05
Re: You are as worthy as everyone around you are shrinking violet 5/16/05
Re: You are as worthy as everyone around you are » shrinking violet pinkeye 5/16/05
Re: i overestimated my worth » shrinking violet Tamar 5/16/05
it's not true! » shrinking violet JenStar 5/16/05
Re: i failed her rubenstein 5/16/05
Re: i overestimated my worth » shrinking violet Dinah 5/16/05
Re: i failed her » shrinking violet antigua 5/17/05
lunch » shrinking violet Shortelise 5/17/05
I Don't Think So... Poet 5/17/05
i need her right now shrinking violet 5/17/05
We're not your T, but we're here ((((((((SV))))))) (nm) » shrinking violet Poet 5/17/05
i called, she's different shrinking violet 5/18/05
thank you {{{{{{poet}}}}}}} (nm) shrinking violet 5/18/05
Re: i called, she's different - I hate it too. Hug » shrinking violet pinkeye 5/18/05
Re: i called, she's different » shrinking violet annierose 5/18/05
Re: i called, she's different Dinah 5/18/05
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Re: i called, she's different » Daisym Dinah 5/18/05

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