Posted by PM80 on May 16, 2005, at 13:40:37
In reply to it's out and i feel worse. ****BIG TRIGGER****, posted by B2chica on May 16, 2005, at 11:27:05
I agree that your T was probably trying to help you not feel like a freak because this happened to you. In no way, shape, or form do I think he meant to make you think or feel that it was a normal/healthy experience or anything but abuse. You were abused and all of the horrible feelings inside you are valid and acceptable and understandable. Please tell your T how what he said made you feel and ask him him to reinterpret what he said. Nothing was your fault. You acted the way so many in your situation would react. You CAN get through this so that you are standing on the other side of this huge, ugly pit. I'm so sorry that you had this experience.
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