Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 17:04:21
In reply to Re: I think I have some serious issues **trigger** » JenStar, posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 16:59:52
How do you guys feel about yourselves? Do you like yourself? Do you think yourself as a good woman basically?
How do you guys relate to men in your life? Do you get beaten? Or kind of illtreated?
I find that in spite of trying so hard, I always end up getting not respected..or liked really and myabe there is some real issue with me.
My new Ts theory is that it was all my father's upbringing.. He kind of managed to treat me like a child for a long time, and treat me like a wife, and treat me like a pseudo adult and gave me kind of pseudo independance. He would always say you can do what you want, but I always knew that I had to do things the way he wanted it. And my husband is like that very much. He keeps saying that I have full freedom, but he won't tolerate even if I deviate slightly from what he wants.
Do you guys get to do what you want?
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