Posted by anastasia56 on May 12, 2005, at 15:31:49
In reply to Re: I think I have some serious issues **trigger** » pinkeye, posted by rainbowbrite on May 12, 2005, at 15:13:53
the common thread in all your posts pinkeye is
you blaming yourself alot.No matter what the situation doesn't that seem lopsided? No one is ever that wrong or bad.
you couldn't have known how you would feel about going back to India when you made that promise years ago.
i echo everything everyone has said to you here. As my mother used to say "If everyone were jumping off the Empire State Building would you do it too?" Just because most families in India experience some violence towards wives does not make it right. Just because most wives in India feel it is their duty to follow their husbands directives, does not make it right. You are your own person with a right to a future that will make you happy.
ana
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