Posted by antigua on April 29, 2005, at 15:54:57
In reply to Re: Rescue Fantasy » daisym, posted by frida on April 28, 2005, at 7:06:40
That was such an amazing post. You write so well. I don't remember wishing my mother would come in and comfort me after the csa (but I should think about it), but when I think of it now, I try to comfort my hurt little girl in the exact same way. I think of giving her a warm bath, making her clean, with nice clean pajamas and sheets, and put her back to bed and don't leave her until she's asleep. This is what I do(did) when my own children were sick, but I try to do it for myself because I know how terribly alone I really felt.
My T is female. I am resisting the idea of getting comfort from her rather than providing it to myself by myself. I feel less vulnerable that way.
Welcome. Thank you for your post,
antigua
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