Posted by rubenstein on April 29, 2005, at 18:09:27
In reply to Re: Rescue Fantasy » rubenstein, posted by daisym on April 29, 2005, at 0:52:54
> Rachel,
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> Do you think having the fantasy is crossing his boundaries? Or is it in the fantasy that you actually cross the boundary?I am not sure...I do think that it is okay to have the fantasy but I think the root of the fantasy is about crossing boundaries, perhaps being special or somethin..hmm...
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> I think this is something we worry about, crossing that invisible line. But I read over and over again that it is up to the therapist to hold the boundaries and as clients we are "allowed" to push things a little -- it says a lot about our needs. I know not all therapists respond well to this.
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> Have you ever told your therapist about your fantasy?No, and I doubt that I will, I miss him right now, I just came out of a crisis and saw him very frequently...Thursday seems so far away...I hate feeling like this
Thanks for the questions DaisyM
They made me think about some things I needed to think about
rachel
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