Posted by mair on February 22, 2005, at 22:12:56
In reply to Re: Making mountains out of mole hills » daisym, posted by Dinah on February 22, 2005, at 22:03:47
It's interesting what we choose to hear and what we filter out - how we can seize so strongly on one small slight while ignoring the overall tone of the session.
I absolutely do this. I don't know if we're just hyper sensitive or overwelmingly insecure. Or maybe it's that your T now is the one person you absolutely have to be able to depend on and that seems shaky. I also think with me, there's always alot of projection at work. I can't believe that she isn't finding me as tiresome as I think I am.
I think it's wonderful though that you can check this out with him - and quickly. I think ultimately you make yourself less miserable than if you just sat on those feelings until the next session.
Mair
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