Posted by Dinah on February 22, 2005, at 22:03:47
In reply to Making mountains out of mole hills, posted by daisym on February 22, 2005, at 20:31:53
My therapist would probably say I do that all the time. So would my husband, probably.
Do you think it has anything to do with the fact that it made more sense growing up to trust our own take on reality than it did to trust what others told us?
I know in my case, it'd help if my therapist would tell me more, so I didn't feel like I needed to read the signs. Like I usually know he's annoyed with me before he'll admit it, maybe before he'll admit it to himself.
It's a good skill in many ways, Daisy. What's hard is knowing when you don't need to use it.
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