Posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 2, 2005, at 10:50:32
In reply to Re: To Tell or Not to Tell New T.(long) » Miss Honeychurch, posted by 10derHeart on February 1, 2005, at 20:12:50
10derheart,
I hope you know that flattery will get you everywhere with me! Calling me wise is the ultimate compliment for me and I thank you!
I'm glad you are planning on telling your new T. I suppose I was uncertain as to whether you were going to tell at all. I think you'll know when the time is right
I am just sensitive about the money issue because I feel I have spent a lot of time in therapy not really getting to the core of things, basically spending $35 a pop to talk about things which never were a big deal to me and waiting MONTHS to bring stuff up. I feel I wasted those early sessions.
But, I didn't know my T very well yet. OUr therapeutic relationship was still young. It was only AFTER I felt he accepted me 100% that I started putting my cards on the table. Maybe this is just the way therapy works. There are a lot of questionable therapists out there, it's probably wise to take a wait and see attitude.
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