Posted by Dinah on January 24, 2005, at 20:21:28
In reply to Re: t2 and the light (possible trigger) » littleone, posted by alexandra_k on January 24, 2005, at 16:02:31
It's possible to fix it, Alexandra. I was like that. I still am in some ways, at some angles. But I learned to uncover the part of me that can connect, can feel warmth. It took a long time, and it was hard work, and I could only do it because I learned to trust. You do know the path. All the words in the world won't help. You're right about that. But it is possible to uncover what was tightly sealed.
Not that doing that is all peaches and cream. That's also the part that cares and can be hurt. It wasn't always safe to care and be open to hurt, and it's still not always safe. But there are times and places where it is safe. You just need to find those times and places and experience the safety often enough that it seeps in.
I hope you find a safe harbor someday very soon.
poster:Dinah
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