Posted by Smeegle on December 9, 2004, at 19:46:19
In reply to Re: payoff? » Smeegle, posted by antigua on December 9, 2004, at 17:48:20
THe whole bank analogy is kinda screwy. It's hard to put it into words so they make sense. You are right about not depending on other to make deposits because yes indeed, disappointment will follow.
You kinda hit the nail of the head about trying to recreate that love and security I felt from my childhood. I truely felt loved. Something that I cherish and realize how fortunate I was. Intellectually, I know I am loved now. But I don't FEEL loved. I need human contact and affection (not in a needy way, just human touch). Grrrr. I try not to let other people's behavior (or lack of) dictate my emotions/happiness, but to me that human contact is as necessary as food and oxygen.
Smeegs
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