Posted by messadivoce on November 23, 2004, at 11:49:59
In reply to Re: communication after termination--my story, posted by Susan47 on November 23, 2004, at 10:41:53
Susan, thanks for your comments and thanks everybody. My ex-T did help me tremendously and I know he worked very hard with me. He did tell me in his last e-mail that he did not want to "process" any feelings with me and that it wouldn't hurt to go back to therapy. Ouch! I wasn't looking to "process" anything, just wanted to reaffirm the connection we had by saying hello, what's going on. As for his "going back to therapy" comment, it felt like a huge brush off. But something I have come to realize is that this may NOT be about me at all! I've been blaming myself but it may not be that simple.
The struggle is reconciling the kindhearted man I knew with the cold one I'm feeling now.
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