Posted by antigua on November 23, 2004, at 7:49:29
In reply to communication after termination--my story, posted by messadivoce on November 23, 2004, at 2:48:18
As you explore your relationship w/your old T with your new T, please try to remember one thing: It's not always about you and what you've done, what you expected, etc. Sometimes, we run into Ts that aren't capable or willing to handle us and when they get in over their heads w/their own issues they run and hide, espcially newbies as they become more experienced. He may hide behind professional boundaries, which can be frustrating, but try not to take it all on yourself.
I could, of course, be totally off track, so feel free to disregard my opinion, but I had a bad experience w/a T last year and my background made it too easy for me to place all the responsibility on my behavior, when in fact he had behaved unethically.
Welcome to babble!
antigua
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