Posted by Susan47 on August 23, 2004, at 12:56:05
In reply to Re: Boundary Stuff » Susan47, posted by Rigby on August 23, 2004, at 12:07:32
I'm sorry I didn't answer your question, I don't think. Can I tell you a story? I was calling CW's machine and telling him I thought my dependence on him was really sick. And I believed that, because I believed he didn't like me. Who the heck wants to need the positive regard of someone who's faking it? And I told him through the machine not to allow me to make any more appointments with him. This was not a good relationship for me, I said. It was destructive.
Who knows, maybe he never even listened to that message. Maybe he felt tweaked. And I was tweaking him, but probably not in the way that he might've thought.
God I need Psycho-Babble right now. Thank you Dr. Bob. The psychological profession owes you a debt.
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