Posted by BigFish on August 23, 2004, at 18:09:45
In reply to Re: Boundary Stuff » BigFish, posted by Susan47 on August 23, 2004, at 17:51:24
> Unfortunately, I dealt with it according to my feelings and my past history. And I suppose that's what each of us will do. I became personally very angry, turned on, and frightened. And reacted accordingly. And my therapist, trying to be a blank slate after all, was unhelpful.
> What you do probably will be affected by your own past and your therapist's ability to be introspective and honest with you. I don't know, I'm guessing and I know nothing. Tell us more though.I've been going to him for 3 and a half years. Starting in Jan I went 2 times a week rather than just a 1x a month med check b/c I was feeling really suicidal. He's asked me, in a round about way, if I had a crush on him. I admitted it but in the months since I haven't brought it up - I'm too embarassed. He also has pressed in on that numerous times in a veiled way. I thought it was maybe for 'theraputic' reasons, but I've talked to a few people who've had therapy and they said they thought that this was strange- why is he pursuing this unless it means something to him personally. Then there are the 'looks.' Like what you describe. I feel really stuck.
BigFish
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