Posted by B2chica on August 1, 2004, at 16:14:12
In reply to Here's what worked for us: » B2chica, posted by Racer on July 30, 2004, at 23:12:06
(((Racer)))
thank you so much for your input. and congrats for the both of you, making that kind of effort.i agree with what it might take to have that happen.
before i was in the hopital, i felt myself going down constantly and i would ask for help, i did most of the cleaning, cooking and all the financial work and it was becoming SO overwhelming but he just didn't. i knew for years it would take my being gone (unreachable) for weeks before he would take on that responsibility...well, i wound up in the hospital for weeks and that's exactly what it took. Now i still take care of the financial (but i like it that way) but he cooks, takes care of laundry and helps with dishes. Sometimes i think that was the best thing that ever happened to our marriage.
b2c.
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