Posted by gardenergirl on May 30, 2004, at 11:42:55
In reply to Re: legal action ???, posted by toomuchpain on May 30, 2004, at 10:52:25
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My goodness, no wonder you are confused. Just to clarify, it's your current T that contacted the lawyer? Please ask her about this. If the lawyer is giving advice to her, you definitely want your OWN lawyer. It's okay if they work together, but you need someone who will have ONLY your best interests at heart.
Also, as I think Racer said, check out the statute of limitations. You probably have plenty of time to make this decision. It's definitely NOT a decision you want to make when you are distressed. It probably feels like you want to take action now, and perhaps get some closure. But please take your time with this and get some solid support in place. It will not be easy.
Take care, and please let us know what accomdations are being made to help you avoid seeing your ex-T. If we could, I bet every Babbler would escort you in and out. Try to imagine us there with you when it gets hard.
Take care,
gg
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