Posted by crushedout on April 4, 2004, at 16:13:30
In reply to Re: i can't find the words, posted by gardenergirl on April 4, 2004, at 15:14:34
Thanks, gg. Yes, that post is a good starting point, I guess. I'm probably looking for the perfect words, something that will move her to tears (or, at least, me).I am thinking, though, that this relationship with her is not good for me. I started cutting to hurt her, or to get a reaction out of her, and I was successful (she got angry). Now she tells me it hurts her when I do it. Do you guys think that is too codependent of her, to be hurt by my cutting? She says it hurts even more because I know it hurts her and I do it anyway. I mean, her reaction makes sense to me, and I found it moving (and it made me want to stop cutting, at the time), but is that normal, healthy, whatever? Just wondering.
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