Posted by gardenergirl on April 4, 2004, at 15:14:34
In reply to Re: i can't find the words » Pfinstegg, posted by crushedout on April 4, 2004, at 12:18:42
Crushed,
You have the words. You have posted them many times here. One post that might help you get started is this one.http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20040402/msgs/332288.html
Perhaps if you go back through some of your posts over the last several weeks, you might find the words. You can bring her the posts if the idea of writing is too much right now. You do such a wonderful job of opening up here. I know it is not the same as in therapy, and we are not your T. Those dynamics are quite different. But your thoughts are here, as if they are a journal.
Good luck, dear. Please do not SI. I agree with Dinah, it likely will not have the result that you are hoping for, and if it were to, that leaves me very worried about whether this relationship is helpful for you or not. And THAT is what therapy is for. Not for the T. For you. So your actions also are for you, and not for your T.
Thinking about you,
gg
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