Posted by Fallen4myT on April 3, 2004, at 23:30:08
In reply to Re: premeditating SI (caution may trigger) » Fallen4myT, posted by crushedout on April 3, 2004, at 23:14:04
I think you then have a very good answer a plus to the letter too..is you cannot back out..write and send it..then..its finsihed and you can go Tuesday and all will be cool and you wont si :)
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> fallen, i think i would give myself the same advice and it's definitely really good advice. i'll try to write something. or maybe i will try to just tell it to her when i see her on tuesday. but i think writing it is better because otherwise i'm afraid i'll dissociate when i see her.
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> > My fear is you will keep hurting her short term and you long term....If I posted your post what would you have posted back???/ Sometimes that is the BEST advice and help what WE would tell others but do not tell ourselves...Yes I meant the hard email on what youre feeling and how you may want to hurt her and want to leave yet..dont want to and how therapy is becoming painful and leaving also painfull
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