Posted by Dinah on March 28, 2004, at 10:50:40
In reply to Transference or legitimate annoyance?, posted by Joslynn on March 28, 2004, at 10:13:54
How about some of both?
You have every right to be annoyed. That's perfectly legitimate. His behavior is unprofessional.
But you're giving it some meanings that it probably doesn't have. It probably just means that he's busy and preoccupied and doesn't have a proper office set up to deal with these things. Which is annoying, and I nearly terminated with my internist over similar issues. But in the end I decided she was good enough, and I felt comfortable enough with her, to overlook the office chaos.
But it doesn't reflect his feelings and attitudes towards you. This is all about him.
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