Posted by Elle2021 on February 25, 2004, at 22:50:42
In reply to Re: I asked for A Do-Over » Dinah, posted by Karen_kay on February 25, 2004, at 17:04:41
((((((Karen)))))))
>AND BECAUSE I ALLOWED MY FATHER TO DO THE THINGS HE DID...
NO. You did NOT ALLOW him to do those things. You were a child and had no choice in the matter. DO NOT blame his actions on yourself. I think it's a pretty strong trend that abused children belive the things that happened to them are their fault. It's certainly been the case with me. BUT, I can objectively look at your situation, and tell you that it was not your fault. It will be okay Karen.
Elle
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