Posted by EmmyS on February 4, 2004, at 18:07:56
In reply to Re: ok, now it hurts » EmmyS, posted by crushedout on February 4, 2004, at 10:00:44
No, he never spoke of his wife, and I never asked. From day one, I really tried to respect his privacy. I think that helped me since knowing nothing gave me very little to obsess on. I knew only what he offered - family photos on his office walls. Sometimes I'd ask little questions about those, since they seemed to be open for scrutiny. Other than that, I stuck to therapy issues.
I saw him with his wife not too long ago at an event. She was talking to someone else, and when she walked past him, he just looked up and smiled. She didn't see it, he was just happy to see her. It was very heart warming. They must be married 25+ years - it felt good to know he is still in love with her.
Emmy
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