Posted by fallsfall on February 4, 2004, at 9:21:15
In reply to Re: Research » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on February 3, 2004, at 22:23:09
"So the other day, when talking about something the EMDR lady said, he said he wouldn't have used that terminology with a layperson. I was torn. On the one hand, I had been offended by the terminology. On the other - a layperson??!!!!!"
That is funny. What a double edged sword.
Do you think that researching has helped at all in your progress? Do you know WHY you do it (other than it being a standard behavior for you - do you do it MORE for psychology than for other things?)
My approval need is clearly an "issue". If he is mad at me, I'm bad and very distressed. If I can't tell what he thinks, I'm extremely anxious - I HAVE to know.
Thanks for helping me feel less weird...
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