Posted by karen_kay on October 11, 2003, at 11:43:12
In reply to Re: I'm in love with my therapist, posted by tinydancer on October 11, 2003, at 3:20:04
It really is hard to be serious because your know that these feelings are not real. You do not know this person. They are feelings that you have for other people that you have experienced in the past. My therapist asked me once if I wonder what his wife looks like. I just ignored him. Of course I wonder what she looks like. And I am jealous of his daughter too. Because I wish I was his daughter (transference issues towards my father). The theraputic relationship is an odd one. Oh, another thing that really got me going. The whole time I have been in therapy I have yet to see another client my age (roughly 25). Usually they are in their 40's. Well, at my last session, I got bumped from my normal time slot which kinda put me in a situation, and I saw who it was for. He got the next client directly after I left and she was my age, blonde hair, sorority girl type, you know the deal. I was fuming. I wanted to be his prettiest client. I know it sounds silly. And stupid saying it, but it hurts my feelings especially since my regualr time was bumped for his prettier client. Aghh!
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