Posted by Tabitha on October 6, 2003, at 1:47:02
In reply to Re: More conflict with my therapist » Tabitha, posted by HannahW on October 6, 2003, at 0:29:12
> Here we are again, up late! Actually, it's only 10:20 on the West Coast.
Ohh,, I've spent too much time online. I'm avoiding bill-paying.
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> I really feel for you. What a hard situation. I hope my "problem-solving" wasn't too off-putting. Sometimes I think like a man--I try to fix things instead of just listen! I suppose we could chalk that up to my co-dependency. I want to rescue people and make them love me forever! :)No not at all. It's just hard to describe the situation in enough detail to let anyone make a good judgement. And you do not have to rescue me to make me love you. I'm much easier than that-- just give me a little attention and companionship and I will be yours forever. :)
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> When you say that you have a harder time relating to men emotionally and intellectually, then I have to say ME TOO! I'm just generally uncomfortable when I'm alone with a man. Even if it's someone I know well and trust. I guess I irrationally worry that it could somehow turn into something sexual.
Hmmm... at this point I irrationally worry that I'll turn it into something sexual. But it never really happens.>
> Hang in there. In spite of everything, you seem like you're still making progress. At least you've been able to better define the situation for yourself, and that can only help. I'm sending you hugs and support. (((Tabitha)))
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> Love,
> HannahThank you! You too (((((Hannah))))
Now I'm signing off-- I promise.
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