Posted by kara lynne on September 17, 2003, at 1:13:46
In reply to Re: I am really so very confused. (long) » kara lynne, posted by Dinah on September 16, 2003, at 23:31:18
My friend just said, "Kara, I'm going to call him and cancel your next appointment for you."
I might let her.
I guess what made me stay was thinking there might be something about myself I need to find out. It may be that I need to learn how to terminate therapy with him.
Also I got so confused from what he said about the other therapist. While I don't want to stay victimized by the incident, it was that kind of rationalization that made me stay there too long to begin with (that there was no law being breached and nothing was really 'wrong'.) So it's all adding to this one wound of unresolved conflict I guess, I don't know.
I have the name of one other male therapist. Maybe I will make an appt. (and not tell the first first?) with him just to see the difference in the meantime. I would also like to go in there at least one more time (if I do leave) without being so reactive. For some reason that seems important to me.
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