Posted by Free on December 4, 2010, at 17:36:05
In reply to Re: blocks, posted by Dr. Bob on December 4, 2010, at 2:06:41
> My responsibility is global. When a poster's hurting, it's the role of other posters to support and educate them.
>I agree with the support and the educate part at any other time except when they're PBC'd (for apologies and rephrases).
I don't want to be on Karpman's Triangle stage where my role is to play an R by asking a V to apologize and rephrase when the V is hurt by your P.
This is my view, I realize, but I will always choose to exit and not participate in this dynamic. Not because I don't care about the other posters, but because it is effective for me to do so.
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