Posted by Zeba on December 9, 2010, at 2:04:34
In reply to Re: Triangles, posted by Dr. Bob on December 7, 2010, at 23:39:47
> > Babble is yours and you can use it as you wish. ... It isn't a democracy. It's a site owned by one person.
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> I can't make posters do as I wish, and posters can't make me do as they wish. But I can do what I can, and posters can do what they can. If posters are unwilling or unable to see what they can do, they remain in the V role. But that doesn't mean I should stop doing what I can do.
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> BobIn my humble opinion, anyone who gets blocked multiple times and keeps coming back is someone who could be considered a victim or V role as you describe it. The thing is, if there is a victim, that means there is also a perpetrator. So I guess I am not referring to a victim role but rather to the notion that bhe blocker becomes the perpetrator when the blockeed keeps getting blocked. So, that is probalby someting to consider for the blocker and blockee in my opinion.
I don't know how many people get blocked over and over to the point they are gone for a year and then come back so it starts all over again, but there is something wrong there in those situations. There should be a way to discern what kind of block someone should have based on the circumstances and situation. For eg;, if it due to some sort of heated situatio, then a short block would be in order no matter who or how many times the person had been blocked as there is something else to be addressed with that person who gets upset and angry quickly. If someone is sort of dense and does not understand why they might be blocked or doesn't unerstand why they wre blocked, they don't necessarily need a long block either and need help with understanding what they did. Okay, long enough.
Zeha (used to be Ozland) who is rarely around anymore.
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