Posted by obsidian on May 1, 2010, at 9:12:58
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, I wish I didn't get upset when, posted by Deneb on April 30, 2010, at 19:42:13
> I still don't understand why my post was bad. :(
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> I just feel bad because others feel bad. I say sorry, without understanding what I said that was uncivil.
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> But I am very sorry I hurt you.
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Deneb,
I don't think you "hurt" anyone, and I think you are great. It's just that sometimes people might worry that your strong focus on Dr. Bob is precluding you from having other, more satisfying relationships. I think Dr. Bob is a lot to you. He certainly becomes a lot of things to different people. It's normal to want someone to care about you, to care about someone else, but you know there are limits to what you can get here.
It's sad sometimes you know...to realize that you can't get what you want from people who are important to you...and that's a commentary in general about life, that of course will carry over here. You must know that often what we do is bring our life experiences here and that often affects our expectations, fears, wants, etc. I hope that you have had someone (an authority or parental figure?) who knows how important you are, and who you have experienced as present and caring.
always wishing you the best,
sid
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