Posted by glydin 2010 on April 30, 2010, at 16:58:38
In reply to Dr. Bob, I wish I didn't get upset when, posted by Deneb on April 29, 2010, at 23:50:34
I know we have had discussions before where I have voiced feelings of feeling unsettled and other upsetting emotions over your posts to and about Dr. Bob. I have tried to make peace with your behavior and realize Dr. Bob allows this....
That being said, I am trying to be helpful with the following: You HAVE stated many times in the past that you were okay with the level of interaction Dr. Bob was willing to have with you on this and the other boards. Maybe, you can remind yourself of that at times you feel ignored or badly and not see it as an unspoken personal commentary?
Part of my making peace was seeing the posts and Dr. Bob's responses to them as being not harmful to you or Dr. Bob. I do not not like to think that this is a harmful behavior for you. SOOOO, taking it for it being an "IS" would have me feeling better about the whole thing.
I see this situation as a defining of you and Dr. Bob's online relationship. It will be as it will be. Questioning why Dr. Bob does what he does has been fruitless for many.... it is what it is.... acceptance isn't easy but it may be the best path in this situation :)
Recovery - 5 years
poster:glydin 2010
thread:945672
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20100321/msgs/945776.html