Posted by Dr. Bob on May 5, 2010, at 21:31:33
In reply to Re: talking to Babblers » Free, posted by Deneb on May 5, 2010, at 16:07:37
> I'd like to think you care about "us", the individual "me" is a bit uncomfortable.
> I believe you do care about us.
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> obsidian> For me, talking only on an adm. level and caring on a big picture of the community level. I am okay with that....
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> glydin2010> Sure, I'll admit that I would like it if you cared about me and talked to me. And why not, it feels good to be cared about, and the more the merrier the way I see it. You are a unique puzzle for sure, so yeah, it's interesting for me to see you open up at times. Please feel free to care and talk to me anytime for any reason if you're so inclined ~~ smiles.
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> Free> Yay! I'm not alone!
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> :-)
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> DenebThanks for supporting Deneb by showing her she's not alone! :-)
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> It's funny you know..the way this sort of thing works....the way that prophecies or expectations become realities.
> It's something that I try to work with.
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> I realized it when I was young, and life really sucked...that I had to entertain the idea that other people could be just other people, with their own concerns, oblivious to me, despite all the feelings I was having. It didn't mean (and doesn't mean) that I don't still feelings about other people's motives and how they relate to me, but I learned to question myself constantly...
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> obsidianHmm, how might that look applied to expectations of me or feelings about my motives?
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> I'll also admit that I have come to care about you(well, under the context of forum dynamics) even though we don't see eye to eye on "things" most of the time. It seems you have grown on me over the years with your mysterious and maddening ways (don't pbc me, I say this with an affectionate tone:)).
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> And while I'm in a good mood, I'd like to congratulate you on the NY Times article. I wouldn't mind being called "a brilliant and reticent Web mastermind" myself. Well done, Bob. Good for you!
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> FreeThanks! It wouldn't be civil of me to refer to anyone as maddening, but I do also care about those who I don't see eye to eye with. :-)
Bob
"a brilliant and reticent Web mastermind" -- The New York Times
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