Posted by muffled on November 6, 2006, at 12:35:56
In reply to Re: a way for there to be less hurt, posted by Dr. Bob on November 3, 2006, at 23:47:29
>It's not intended to support the people who are blocked, it's to try to keep the general atmosphere supportive.
**So, this isn't a question, but an observation....
But with the above statement in mind...
Then thats the thing of it...
About blocking...
Cuz your a part of a community, that gives and takes as needed....
And after awhile you finally feel somewhat accepted, an all too rare feeling for many of us....
And you get comfortable, and feel safe enough to be more real....
And sometimes stuff is hard, and its hard to keep in control....
So you reach out and immerse yourself in this community you have embraced, and which has wonderingly, embraced you...
And sometimes, mebbe you get carried away some, cuz everything is getting mixed up in your head...
But in this community they understand mostly...
And accept you in your weirdness, in your imperfection...
But then you screw up, mebbe not majorly even....
And rather than having the community available to nurture and help you thru this challenging time....
YOU ARE UTTERLY BANISHED.
ITS LIKE YOU SCREW UP AND THATS IT.
F*CK YOU SH*THEAD.
YOU BLOCKED.
GO AWAY.
WE DON'T GIVE A RATS *SS BOUT YOU.
YOU THOT WE CARED.
YOU THOT IT WAS SAFE HERE.
BUT ITS NOT.
IMPERFECTION IS ONLY TOLERATED IF THERE IS NO POSSIBLE CHANCE, HOWEVER SLIGHT, THAT YOU MIGHT CAUSE SOME SMALL MEASURE OF PAIN TO ANOTHER.
SO THERE MUST BE BIG SHOCKING PAIN, IN ORDER TO KEEP THE OVERALL PEACE.
Sigh.
I really don't get the need for a sledgehammer, when mebbe a belt might do...:-(, or even a flyswatter, and a chance to apologize, for each and EVERY transgression... not a pbc on one board, and allasudden you get sledgehammered on another :-(, shockingly, hurtfully, terribly rejectfully...Bob, can you please reflect back to me what I said, so that I might know that you DO understand what I am getting at? I know there must be hurt, thats life. But I am of a mind that hurt could be further reduced here on babble, for the good of all, and not with the motivation of fear, and not at the expense of a few 'examples', to strike fear in others....
Sorry if I am terribly annoying.
Yes, I am trying to understand.
I am trying to understand where YOU are comming from as you are the one in control, so its of some importance..
I am trying to see if we can further make things better for ALL, everybody.
Thank you,
Muffled
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