Posted by Deneb on May 7, 2006, at 0:10:47
In reply to Estella, posted by Deneb on May 6, 2006, at 23:45:29
Estella, my heart breaks for you right now to see you in such pain.
I've been assuming that you've been doing well during your block. Now I know that I was wrong.
Sometimes people don't give us what we need. Sometimes we have to ask for it, even if it makes the help seem less sincere. I do that a lot...ask for support. I like to think the support is genuine.
I'm sorry you don't feel supported here. I hope you have IRL support.
I think part of why this place can affect you so much is because you care so much...maybe too much. I like that you care, but I want the best for you so I'm recommending that you don't care about us if we are not supporting you. Be selfish and be okay with it. Don't care so much about the things that happen here. Don't care too much about the people here if caring only hurts you.
((((((Estella)))))) I wish I could make you feel better.
Deneb*
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