Posted by tdaneen on August 11, 2000, at 16:50:12
In reply to Yucky come-on - feel like it's my fault (long), posted by Kath on August 11, 2000, at 12:32:15
Oh, Kath.
I am so sorry.
What a terribly confusing and frightening experience.
This is not your fault.
This is NOT your fault
This is not YOUR fault.What he did, what happened was VERY inappropriate behavior. From anyone.
Kath, men and women both are animals, but sexual urges...let me be frank...If the man feels too much tention, well then relief is just within his arms reach (know what I mean?).
You didn't lead him on.
I'm not denying that and elderly gentleman (or lady for that matter) would want a sexual relationship. This is natural, what is NOT natural is to want one with your daughter in law.
You are ok. Keep grounded. Don't let this throw you into flashbacks. It sound like you are facing it well. Keep it up.
I'm smiling a tiny encouraging smile for you...
....and I do understand this....T
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