Posted by alexandra_k on May 12, 2005, at 22:49:20
In reply to Re: Susan, posted by Susan47 on May 12, 2005, at 22:32:33
> I can never feel comfortable in sweats or lounging in pyjamas .. ew, unless it's a cotton short nightie, I used to love "baby dolls" I love stuff like that, frills, ribbon and lace, that's me I'm afraid. And sexy black see through stuff that I remember I had this thing floated from shoulder to ankle, eeewwww I loved that, you know I really have to start looking for stuff like that, well I suppose I have to have someone else to wear it for too, there's no point absolutely none, well maybe in the summer with the drapes drawn early evening, hmm maybe I'll sneak out on the patio in the dark... I'm a bad bad girl. I'm bad. But, there's no point in wishing I were anything else, there just isn't. I can't be ashamed of who I am. I love being feminine, I love being a woman, I love having a woman's heart mixed with a child's heart and I love everything about being a woman. Period.
Right. So you feel comfortable in that kind of stuff. You have to wear what you feel comfortable in... Like I said.
>Y'know, I think it's time to leave really really soon.
I'm confused.
Maybe I'm just having a bad day... But I hope you don't think that I was judging you. I was just saying what sorts of things made me feel comfortable... And like I said you have to wear what you feel comfortable in..But something did occur to me...
Something did.You said something over on relationships about your t 'dressing to the nines' and about how you described that as part of him 'leading you on'.
You said something about how you hate to be judged on the basis of your appearance.
You said something about the guy you met who 'didn't recognise his power' - and you had just met him briefly.
Hmm...
Thinking
ThinkingI think sometimes how we judge others is how we are afraid that others are judging us. Sometimes we fear that other people will or are judging us the way we are judging them.
So we get in first.
But that seems to provoke others to judge us the way we feared.
And we have confirmed that which we were most afraid of.
I do this
I do
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