Posted by sunny10 on May 12, 2005, at 9:28:25
In reply to Re: Susan, posted by Susan47 on May 11, 2005, at 21:23:02
I actually choose the anonymity of sweats... No one looks twice at me... they don't even look to see my face.
As a prior "trophy wife", I don't want men to look at me. Every once in a while, I dress up FOR ME or for my SO. I don't go anywhere special, anyway, so it's not like I dress in sweats to go to the opera or anything... I don't purposely dress inappropriately I guess is what I mean.
My SO prefers women without makeup, et cetera, but also enjoys when I dress up every once in a while for him...he knows that it is a "special occasion just for him" (hmmm, now that I look back it is probably a hormonal thing... it usually means I'm gonna jump him! It's probably that more than my outfit that he enjoys... smile).
I work in a "closed to the public" environment which means that we have no dress code. I wear sweats. If I meet a friend out at a bar, I don't change, usually. There's just live music every Friday and Saturday night at this one partcular place, with no cover charge. We go to hang out with each other.
I know lots of people who cultivate a special "look". I'm just much too lazy!!!
And, no, I don't much like walking in the dark and the cold, wither... Although I DO enjoy a walk on a summer's evening under a sky full of stars (!).
mwah,
sunny10
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