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ever not forgiven someone

Posted by rjlockhart37 on August 22, 2019, at 20:42:24

this post isnt ment to be a like a confession thing, no no. But years ago there was a poster that i apologized too for writingg something very hurtful, and i hate myself - i was immature and had child teenage persona. I still want that poster to come back, but she never forgave me. No many how many times, she didnt forgive me. And forgiveness....i don't know how forgiveness is, because some people say i forgive you but but they say the few words i do forgive you "but"....
1.i want nothing to do with you anymore.
2. i will never trust you
3. I will not talk to you or have associations

i've had people say that to me before, and you know the "apology accepted, trust denied" i think is a good term, such as accepthing their aoology but you don't trust them anymore, say they lied or screwed you over....apology accepted. But....what does apology mean to you? do you feel better about that person when they apologize and also if your forgive them, do you still hold like resentment....

i just don't get saying forgiveness but having no ties with you anymore, maybe its just me thinking that saying i forgive yoou and now where back as friends again, and don't worry about what you did to me, i forgive you

there have been so many people i've met that freenutly say that but their heart defeintly does not mean it, it's just a courtesy term word to make them feel better

anyon have any thoughts on this?

"There comes a time in your life where you have to choose to turn the page, write another book, or simply close it"
-Shannon L Alder




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