Posted by Kath on November 15, 2008, at 20:56:43
In reply to Re: I got triggered » TexasChic, posted by Deneb on November 15, 2008, at 11:59:39
> I'm remembering a bunch of other unpleasant memories now. Like my parents fighting and once in a while it got physical (not extreme, but it was still very scary for me). I remember my Mom crying and asking my sister and me to hit our father back. I froze, but my sister hit my father.
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> I remember my Mom being late to pick me up from daycare. I was so scared. I remember my Mom leaving us outside the stores in Chinatown while she went inside to buy stuff. I was left with my sister in a stroller with a large number of bags on the handles. There were tons of people in Chinatown and I remember being so scared as I waited outside for my Mom. I remember once the bags got so heavy that it tipped the stroller with my sister in it. I didn't know what to do. I was so scared.
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> I think the chat exclusion thing definitely brought out the memory.~ ~ ~ ((((you))))))) Those things sound VERY VERY scarey & upsetting. (Also it sounds like you were put in situations that weren't healthy or appropriate.) While the past is past, I think it's important to know - not to dwell on, but to know, that certain things did happen, but were NOT okay.
Hope you're doing okay today Deneb.
luv, Kath
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