Posted by Angel Girl on January 13, 2005, at 12:03:21
In reply to Re: What's so wrong with me? **possible trigger** » Angel Girl, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 13, 2005, at 1:14:14
fallen
I understand and agree with what you're saying but the fact is, it still hurts. It hurts like HELL and I miss them. We used to have such fun times once upon a time.
BTW, thanks for replying my thread. It looks like since I opened up and revealed things, that I have scared everybody off. That makes me very sad because it took a lot for me to do that. It's not easy to reveal your bad stuff to other people and then when you do, everybody heads for the hills. That hurts.
AG
> Friends should BUT also friend sadly have limits and boundaries even issues that make it hard for them to deal with someone elses issues so it may be a self preservation issue. For example I still care about a friend of mine but cannot be around her as she triggers things in me that leaves bad feelings and thoughts that would be detrimental to MY health...so I HAD to cut her loose. Its not her fault or even mine..we are like oil and water. Still I want the best for her and if roles were reversed would want her to cut herself off from me if I ( not meaning to) messed with her emotional well being. Friends want the best for freind and sometimes thats a lot of space and not to be friends that stay in touch odd as that sounds. Its like a ex drunk and a drunk....they may care but need to stay away.
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> >>>All in all, the bottom line is I scared the hell out of them and they had reached their limit. I realize that there is only so much that people can take but doesn't a *true* friend stand by you when the going gets rough, or are friends just for the good times? I guess I overstayed my welcome. I just find it hard giving the end result and knowing how things used to be before I realized I was BP. :( >>
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