Posted by 64bowtie on January 2, 2005, at 2:16:44
In reply to Re: Like implied if I didn't say clearly...., posted by gardenergirl on January 1, 2005, at 2:31:12
> I view it as a personal choice, and one that should not be taken lightly.
> gg<<< Very serious stuff! I sincerely hope I didn't seem toooo glib... I was suggesting that Daisy not confront her Mom to reconcile this upsetness. That would only be vengeance serving, and the outcome can't be beautiful.
Instead, I suggest Daisy can settle her mind by seeking tangent information if it is available. The new information can help her with "frame-of-reference" stuff; today she has nothing but uncertainty; quicksand can seem more certain.
I guess I have heard so many of these stories, I must have accepted it as the rule not the exception. I am not callous; I shudder everytime I hear another story.
Am I finally being clear? I worry everytime I talk to anyone about this stuff since its one of those emotional "minefields" in our lives. I've had much disappointment talking about it with survivors.
...your friend in knowledge, Rod
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