Posted by Scott in Vermont on June 3, 2004, at 8:27:22
In reply to did someone say naked? » Scott in Vermont, posted by karen_kay on June 2, 2004, at 15:31:06
Now we’re getting to the meat of the offer.
I’m rather pleased that you rank getting drunk and running naked in the woods high on your “fun things to do” list. I would never have made participation mandatory, but I’m genuinely pleased to see that no coercion on my part will be necessary.
I misunderstood your point of origin. The original idea still stands, however. If I’m driving more than 10 hours to get you, you’d better buy me lunch.
When I used the word “our” to refer to the garden, it was to show the sharing capacity I am capable of. No, I do not want to get married in a legally binding sense.
Well, you didn’t say you liked to cook for other people! That changes things a LOT. And no worries on the grocery shopping, it falls under the duties and responsibilities of finances, which I maintain myself.
When I used the word “our” to refer to the home, it was to show the sharing capacity I am capable of. No, I do not want to get married in a legally binding sense.
Yes, I did talk out loud when was writing the previous (and current) epic. I’m here to let you know that I have been plucking at the banjo for some time, and while I’ve yet to master the instrument, most people are impressed with my playing. My friend Jon (the metalsmith) is an incredible banjo player.
Trust me about the helmets- if they have made it this long without a head-bumping incident, I think they will be just fine without them. However, if it will make you feel better, you can wear a helmet yourself in case you ever bend over to button a shirt and #BONK#…
Singing in the shower and car is good practice for singing in other places. Even if you cannot sing well, the effort is what is appreciated. However, I must caution against falling into fires. The fires we have are pretty big. If you fall in, you might not be getting out. Jumping over fires is a good thing (it’s a traditional practice, actually) but no falling IN. If I have to keep you away from the fire, I will.
You are right that I didn’t say “our” car… it’s MY car and while I will share it I don’t want any misunderstandings about who has the yea or nay say about what does and does not happen with it. I cannot be there 100% of the time to hold your hand, so if you choose to not wear a seat belt, be prepared to accept the consequences if you are pulled over or get into an accident. Yes, you can move the seat to fit you and no I won’t get mad, it makes good driving sense to have the seat properly positioned. And so long as you are losing your OWN CDs, I don’t care. By the way, I do have a fast car. It’s a Volvo 740 Turbo.
Owned… well, this is going to be a problem. You know how I am about honesty and openness. If you wish to pretend that you own me, in your mind, then I suppose that is ok, but any overt actions that make me feel trapped or owned are right out, period. The “up” side of this is that of course our relationship would be open. If the whim hits you to be involved with someone, feel free to do so. My only rules are is that you’re safe. If I were to have another girlfriend (or boyfriend) I would of course be open about it. Secrets serve no good for anyone and create jealous situations that are unnecessary. As far as group participation, I’m not opposed to it but I have been in those situations before and it’s not always a positive experience for everyone… there can be no coercion and no pressure. And I don’t feel any need to have to be your “favorite”.
If you have to find a boyfriend that will provide you with a pony, then so be it. I will not incur the expense, nor will I accept any of the responsibility in caring for the pony. The pony is your dream, and since you’re not willing to share it, we’ll list it under the “personal pursuit of happiness” as opposed to “mutual collective interest”.
We don’t have a mail carrier, we have a PO Box. But if you would like to have your carrier visit us (I don’t know how keen she would be on moving) then that’s fine. As far as the guy at the gas station who sells you your smokes, same idea but if either of them want to come, we’ll make room so long as they provide effort towards the collective.
No, I do not mind if you hit on my friends. In fact, I would go so far as to say that if you do hit on them, don’t be a tease. Make good on your flirtations.
I am thinking that, with a few minor issues, this can work.
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