Posted by shadows721 on May 20, 2004, at 23:59:36
In reply to Never going to be a mom :(, posted by pegasus on May 18, 2004, at 15:47:32
Pegasus,
I do hope that you get your wish fulfilled in being a mom. I have to tell you that pressuring yourself does no good at all. I know 3 ladies that had problems and gave up. When they gave up, they got pregnant. This happened, because they weren't so stressed. So try not to stress yourself, please. Stress can play a major role in hormones and fertility.
I wish you could talk with my nursing instructor that tried for 10 years to have a baby. After she adopted a child, she came down with rare migrane disorder. It wasn't a migrane disorder. She was pregnant! She never believed it would happen to her. She tried everything. After adopting a baby, her focus was off of her fertility an on the baby. Bingo! She became pregnant within a year.
Another lady I worked with tried for 5 years, her doctor said stop trying and start shopping. Her doctor said you are trying to hard and stressing yourself out. Sure enough, she had a whole new wardrobe of clothes when she got pregnant.
I am not suggesting those ideas, but I am suggesting in being not so stress out. If you are happy in your life as it is, your health will be better and a better chance of conceiving too. Be kind to yourself in the process.
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